CLEANING UP OUR CLOSETS:
We have decided that we will start cleaning our closets first.  It seems to be the heart of the house.  What does it mean to anybody the "cleaning up of a closet"? 
Well, that's exactly what we need to do with our soul.  Clean our hearts, our past, our history.  Lets make a good introspection.  Lets deal with our demons, lets take out all our clothes.
Have you ever noticed that when you want to organize your closets you have to take out everything first?  the mess is inevitable, yet, that's the only way to start.  Therefore, in this stage you will be a little disturbed, because you will have to deal with your history.  May be you have a trauma.  May be you are sad about something.  May be you have been a lonely person.  May be you have problems with your husband or wife.  May be you have problems with your job, may be you still hate your parents for whatever reason you have to hate them, may be you are too old and feel that it is too late to start.  May be thousand of things.  May be, may be.....
But Sweet friends.  In order to get started in this journey, you must clean up this closet.  If you feel that you are not able to do it, then, go to your room alone or to church, sit down, and in silence ask God to show you the way.  Look at his image, maintain his image in your mind and close your eyes, then tell him:  "Dear Daddy, I want to clean up my closet for you.  Help me deal with my past, help me deal with myself, because I know that this history that I have is my own house, it is who I am and I want to offer it to you, but clean and pretty, so you can be my guest".  Do it with your all being and wait there, just stay there with this thoughts in your mind.
This is a long process.  It will be impossible for you to clean up your closet with only one day doing this.  It is something that you have to do everyday from now on until you are friends with your history.  You may will realize that you need a specialist to deal with deeper problems.  You may want to talk about all of these troubles with a priest or a friend.  You may find out that starting a journal could be helpful, maybe you want to start painting or drawing in order to take out your pain, your sense of guilt or what ever is out there.
Therefore,  take each one of your clothes, fold it and place it in its proper area of your closet.  Order it by colour if you want, may be you want to put shirts together, pants or dresses together.  What I mean is that you want to work out each area of yourself separately.  Your infancy, adolescense, your parents or your friends, what ever you need to deal with, do it in order, step by step, day by day, and always offer your cleaning up to God.